Saturday, January 23, 2016
Thursday, February 19, 2015
Kanaka Thinking: Becoming a Class Act
Hana a mikioi, lawe a 'auli'i.
Be deft and dainty. Pukui 447Said to young people: Be neat, sweet and clever--not crude and blundering.
Knowing how to navigate flawlessly in the world requires young people to observe the behavior of people who are successful. Starting with a strong foundation of positive values and a caring attitude, young people can learn much from their elders.
Wednesday, January 14, 2015
Kanaka Thinking: Keep Sweet Memories of your Birthplace
Lahaina, i ka malu 'ulu o Lele.
Lahaina, in the shade of the breadfruit trees of Lele. Pukui 1936
Lele, the old name for Lahaina.
Tuesday, October 14, 2014
Kanaka Thinking: The Value of Ancestral Knowledge
Ua lehulehu a manomano ka 'ikena a ka Hawai'i.
Great and numerous is the knowledge of the Hawaiians. Puku'i #2814
The question is when did we lose this wisdom and resorted to actions which were harmful to our environment and our society as a people and a nation?
The second question is when will we be able to move forward on the foundation created by our kupuna to create a better life for the future? What will it take to affect positive change? It will definitely not be a a government movement but the work of individuals working cooperatively to make change happen. For those of us who are kupuna, our job is to raise our children and grandchildren well...knowing kuleana...being respectful...working hard for the common good. For the young ones, now is the time to listen to the stories of the kupuna that teach the values of our people. For all, we have to dream that dream of a better Hawai'i Nei. And then, work toward it!
Saturday, August 16, 2014
Kanaka Thinking: Family Traits and Reputation
Ku i ka welo.
Fits into the family behavior pattern. Puku'i 1870
Whether good or bad, one's behavior is judged by the family he belongs to.
When an individual does something noteworthy, the whole family can celebrate and share in the joy. When an individual does something dishonorable, the whole family shares the shame. There are times when children are named after a beloved or honored relative. The desire is often that the child will carry on the attributes of the relative. If the child indeed does well and serves as a credit to his/her kupuna, people will say that he is blessed by that relative. If the child goes astray and brings dishonor to the name, there is much sadness. In these days of nuclear families, the ties to family are fragile. Many young people have lost sight that their names represent their history for the generations before them and after them.
Live a good life and bring honor to your name.
Labels:
dishonor,
honor,
integrity,
networking,
reputation,
shame
Monday, July 7, 2014
Kanaka Thinking: Thievery and Fear
Ka i ka 'ai ka 'aihue.
A thief is hurt in his thievery. Puku'i #1390Theft is accompanied by fear
On the Fourth of July, 2014, someone walked up our driveway and stole our ATV out from our stable. This was about 9:15-9:30 in the morning. Although my husband was not home, I was upstairs and by the time I walked across the house, all I saw was the ATV on the highway facing in the Hilo direction and then it was gone.
Such a blatant act of thievery is inconceivable...in broad daylight! Probably by some of my neighbors.
Two things come to mind. First is the lack of respect. Second is the breakdown of the family control.
To steal the ATV, we can only assume that these stealarobbers were watching our home for a while. They came up the driveway, walked past our dogs, pushed the ATV down the driveway and started it up at the end of the driveway. They had no respect for us as community members, kupunas, responsible citizens. They had no respect for themselves as honorable people. Aue, aue, aue.
Secondly, in the old days, word of such crime went around fast! And if the culprit came from a family, the 'ohana would discipline the wrongdoer who brought shame to the family. So many of the families in our community are dysfunctional and without family leadership, and young people allowed to do as they wish without boundaries, consequences, and parameters. Aue, aue, aue for our families, our communities and our nation.
It is my hope that justice will be served and the thieves will reap their just desserts. Until that time, they must live their lives in fear of getting caught. Like my mother always said at the end of each Dragnet episode. "Crime does not pay."
Labels:
aue.,
dishonor,
dysfunctional families,
lack of respect,
thievery
Thursday, May 1, 2014
Kanaka Thinking: Imperfection and Beauty
Pu'upu'u lei pali i ka 'a'i.
An imperfect lei, beautified by wearing. Pukui 2765
Even an imperfect lei looks beautiful when worn around the neck.
A lei, lovingly made, should be cherished and worn with pride. To pick the flowers and foliage, clean them, and then assemble them constitute a labor of love. Often a lei maker will have the person in mind and the most astounding foliage and flowers will make themselves available in the forest.
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